With the amount of hours they must study and work they are exhausted a lot. Next year we are getting married but I already see a tough life ahead of me. And you seem like a good person. My family supported me in this. In the end, if the guy is the keeper you say he is then go with your gut.
It is always a nice idea to plan for your date in advance. Is it naive to think we could raise our children to fully participate in two different faiths. There will always be difference between spouses. I still find it an endearing quality in my spouse, though I miss him sorely. It's been really helpful already. The first time, the shrink said, "It is very common for a woman to divorce so their children WILL see their father more. So how do we approach saving a relationship with someone who has unrealistic expectations of what a long-term relationship looks like.
That being said, we have built something beautiful and good, have modeled loving responsibility and accountability to our kids, and I am certain I am with the man God chose for me. He was my first boyfirend and is an amazing husband. Of course she won't want to watch something that in her mind attacks her religion. I know that sounds cold but if you train under stress for that many years and become a member of a masochistic not the sexual context fraternity like that of surgical residents, then you more easily shut out anything that might break down those walls. I am so glad to have found this blog too. Be fruitful and multiply.
Becoming a doctor is hard. All of my siblings who married in the church 1 discussed getting married on the first date 2 were engaged within two months, and 3 were married within six months. I wanted that full support though I am certainly not saying that marrying a Mormon ensures that. I have finally learned to pray to change my heart, not his. Don't think it's just women married to male physicians who suffer. To his defense, when we were great, we were great. So, we decide to take a "break" because there was so much tension and resentment in the relationship. Maybe about a year ago.
