There's a persistent myth floating around that men don't dig presex play, that all they really crave is a grope here and a nibble there and, bam, they're prepped for action. Not true. Not one bit true. The mix-up lies in the fact that guys simply desire a different type of foreplay than women do — moves that take into account the way guys' brains work and erogenous zones specific to a dude's body, explains Carole Altman, PhD, author of You Can Be Your Own Sex Therapist. Here, we detail six man-pleasing moves that will slowly bring his lust to a boil. Even if you've stripped down with your guy before, there's a good chance that he's never feasted his eyes on your completely bare bod for more than a few seconds. Maybe it's because you undress quickly in a passion frenzy or your bodies are too close for him to really take you in. But it's a surefire libido trigger. While he's on the bed, peel off your clothes slowly.

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Practice your kissing. A lot of pheromones get swapped during mouth-on-mouth action. Put some time and effort into your makeout skills. Women have lots of potential erogenous zones, and they vary from person to person. Grab her boobs, lick her nipples, and run your hand all around her body to see what works for her. Get a little weird. Have fun out there. Are you kidding?
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Giving a blow job means taking your partner's penis into you mouth and satisfying him sexually in that way. There are several things to keep in mind to make giving blow jobs as pleasurable and as safe as possible. The most sensitive place of the penis is the head or glans , and the lower edge of that the corona is the best part to stimulate, for example with your lips or tongue. The frenulum , which connects the foreskin to the glans, also has a lot of nerve endings, which makes it another sensitive area.
Why do men have nipples? Because God wants men to be happy. Although he may be a little nipplephobic at first, gently coax him into allowing you to rub, pinch, knead, and suck on them. His orgasm will be so intense, it may temporarily put him into a coma. That tiny little band of flesh is where nerves bundle together so closely, he will scream so loudly with pleasure if you lick it that people will be able to hear him in the next county.